REPOST! Had a V8 moment !

(this was originally posted in 2009...and typically I will not repost something....but this is the exception. You see I was thinking of people in the polygamy community - married and singles - and perplexed over why things seem to go wrong on both sides......Now before you say it's normal I will say YES IT IS ! However the emotions in polygamous seperations are AMPLIFIED greater than those of monogamous breakups and problems.....AnyWay.....I felt this song explains ALOT. Both sides are expecting the RoseGarden !!  I hope and pray that these lyrics speak to you as they have to me. God Bless all ! )


I Never Promised You A Rose Garden



I beg your pardon

I never promised you a rose garden

Along with the sunshine

There's gotta be a little rain some time

When you take you gotta give so live and let live

Or let go oh-whoa-whoa-whoa

I beg your pardon

I never promised you a rose garden



I could promise you things like big diamond rings

But you don't find roses growin' on stalks of clover

So you better think it over

Well if sweet-talkin' you could make it come true

I would give you the world right now on a silver platter

But what would it matter

So smile for a while and let's be jolly

Love shouldn't be so melancholy

Come along and share the good times while we can



I beg your pardon

I never promised you a rose garden

Along with the sunshine

There's gotta be a little rain some time



I could sing you a tune and promise you the moon

But if that's what it takes to hold you

I'd just as soon let you go

But there's one thing I want you to know

You better look before you leap, still waters run deep

And there won't always be someone there to pull you out

And you know what I'm talkin' about

So smile for a while and let's be jolly

Love shouldn't be so melancholy

Come along and share the good times while we can



I beg your pardon

I never promised you a rose garden

Along with the sunshine

There's gotta be a little rain some time



Rose Garden

Lynn Anderson

peak Billboard position # 3 in 1971

Words and Music by Joe South

How I see dating sites

This subject has come up on a few different groups so I thought I'd address it here.



I've heard people comment about how they have not found a wife at a dating site so therefore the site is no good. Or that some of the women have been there awhile so therefore the site is no good.



Obviously those people who think that way are looking at it all wrong.



In both cases they have not stopped and thought that maybe the reason they
didn't find a wife is because the right person wasn't there yet or had been
there but left before they joined....and as far as the women being there awhile - maybe those women haven't found the right family yet !






A good analogy would be "clothes shopping"






If one goes shopping for a new outfit they tend to already know what they want.  Style. Color. And of course it has to fit :-)



They find an outfit but it's wrong color - why would they get it ?
They wouldn't.



They find an outfit but it's the wrong style - why would they get it ?
They wouldn't.



They find an outfit but it just doesn't fit 0 why would they get it?
They wouldn't.



Not all women are going to be what a family is seeking.......and not all
families are going to be what a woman is seeking.....and neither should "settle" for less. Hence why one might not find a wife at a site necessarily and/or why the profiles of women seeking a family might seem to have been there awhile - not because the site is at fault or useless or a scam - just that the right fits have not yet been found ;-)



Understand ???