This subject has come up on a few different groups so I thought I'd address it here.
I've heard people comment about how they have not found a wife at a dating site so therefore the site is no good. Or that some of the women have been there awhile so therefore the site is no good.
Obviously those people who think that way are looking at it all wrong.
In both cases they have not stopped and thought that maybe the reason they
didn't find a wife is because the right person wasn't there yet or had been
there but left before they joined....and as far as the women being there awhile - maybe those women haven't found the right family yet !
A good analogy would be "clothes shopping"
If one goes shopping for a new outfit they tend to already know what they want. Style. Color. And of course it has to fit :-)
They find an outfit but it's wrong color - why would they get it ?
They wouldn't.
They find an outfit but it's the wrong style - why would they get it ?
They wouldn't.
They find an outfit but it just doesn't fit 0 why would they get it?
They wouldn't.
Not all women are going to be what a family is seeking.......and not all
families are going to be what a woman is seeking.....and neither should "settle" for less. Hence why one might not find a wife at a site necessarily and/or why the profiles of women seeking a family might seem to have been there awhile - not because the site is at fault or useless or a scam - just that the right fits have not yet been found ;-)
Understand ???
I so agree with you on this one! I have also noticed something else. They have lists and lists of things they want and don't want and to me they seem to want perfection. Maybe another reason, they aren't finding someone? I don't know maybe I am wrong on that but it just seems that way to me. No one is perfect.
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